"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some advise on how to write the first reply back

Hughman

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Okay, so I'm making progress and I'm in convo with a girl I might possibly be in a chance with. Here's my FR: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159518

Her message on FB: 'hey sorry bout that its been quite busy i completely forgot to txt back :) [i c+f her on the fact she never texted me back ony my first text] how u been? you enjoy the pub the other day? read any good books lately? :p'

Now, there's questions, which is good. She's interested in how I feel, which is good, but asking about books? (common ground found of our love of reading) I appreciate if I handle this wrong, I could get LJBFed hard. So any advise on how to approach this and get a date (again, I appreciate several messages may be required to get it)

Here's the draft of my reply:

'I've been good ta. Had an old friend round for a long weekend [and her little sister : / ] - that's what I left early, had to get ready for them. Twas fun to catch up with them, haven't seen her in years, doesn't help they live in Greece.

As for books, well, they're top secret, couldn't possibly tell you about them ; )

'you reading anything that captures the vivid imagination? Or is that going to be a secret? :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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COD

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wheres your challenge, wheres your tease, C & F, NEG..............U claim U want to avoid lets just be friends.........DUDE THIS SCREAMS OF WUSS BOY wanting to be JUST her friend.

So inject some playa like texts, invoke some banter, tease a lil more. Reading wow are u fricken serious..............FAKE IT DUDE..........say something like I am reading how to disarm a bomb, Jeorpardy for GENIOUS's, Dr. Suess, the 3 little pigs.............HUMOR dude........come on you know this stuff, now mix it up already.
 

r0cky

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I'd say you steer away from boring topics such as books. So ignoring her question is the best thing. She's probably only trying to make convo and thats the best she could come up with. Try to come with something better to talk about.
 
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