"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some advise on how to write the first reply back

Hughman

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Okay, so I'm making progress and I'm in convo with a girl I might possibly be in a chance with. Here's my FR: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=159518

Her message on FB: 'hey sorry bout that its been quite busy i completely forgot to txt back :) [i c+f her on the fact she never texted me back ony my first text] how u been? you enjoy the pub the other day? read any good books lately? :p'

Now, there's questions, which is good. She's interested in how I feel, which is good, but asking about books? (common ground found of our love of reading) I appreciate if I handle this wrong, I could get LJBFed hard. So any advise on how to approach this and get a date (again, I appreciate several messages may be required to get it)

Here's the draft of my reply:

'I've been good ta. Had an old friend round for a long weekend [and her little sister : / ] - that's what I left early, had to get ready for them. Twas fun to catch up with them, haven't seen her in years, doesn't help they live in Greece.

As for books, well, they're top secret, couldn't possibly tell you about them ; )

'you reading anything that captures the vivid imagination? Or is that going to be a secret? :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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COD

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wheres your challenge, wheres your tease, C & F, NEG..............U claim U want to avoid lets just be friends.........DUDE THIS SCREAMS OF WUSS BOY wanting to be JUST her friend.

So inject some playa like texts, invoke some banter, tease a lil more. Reading wow are u fricken serious..............FAKE IT DUDE..........say something like I am reading how to disarm a bomb, Jeorpardy for GENIOUS's, Dr. Suess, the 3 little pigs.............HUMOR dude........come on you know this stuff, now mix it up already.
 

r0cky

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I'd say you steer away from boring topics such as books. So ignoring her question is the best thing. She's probably only trying to make convo and thats the best she could come up with. Try to come with something better to talk about.
 
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