"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Solution needed please..

keemojung

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Refer to this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186332,

What are some ways to remedy the situation that she has perceived

my neediness and i am a lil desperate due to the way i talked

to her like that on the phone?


Should i apologize for being so harsh and pressure her too much?


I really like her and wanna bang her so bad.

I am think offering her the next date to check her IL.

When is the appropriate time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thevilittletroll

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you def showed her that you are desperate, needy, and have no other options. you also showed her that you put way too much importance and value in having a date with her. you might as well just move on, she will probably never go out with you now.
 
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