"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solution needed please..

keemojung

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Refer to this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186332,

What are some ways to remedy the situation that she has perceived

my neediness and i am a lil desperate due to the way i talked

to her like that on the phone?


Should i apologize for being so harsh and pressure her too much?


I really like her and wanna bang her so bad.

I am think offering her the next date to check her IL.

When is the appropriate time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thevilittletroll

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you def showed her that you are desperate, needy, and have no other options. you also showed her that you put way too much importance and value in having a date with her. you might as well just move on, she will probably never go out with you now.
 
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