"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solution needed please..

keemojung

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Refer to this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186332,

What are some ways to remedy the situation that she has perceived

my neediness and i am a lil desperate due to the way i talked

to her like that on the phone?


Should i apologize for being so harsh and pressure her too much?


I really like her and wanna bang her so bad.

I am think offering her the next date to check her IL.

When is the appropriate time?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thevilittletroll

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you def showed her that you are desperate, needy, and have no other options. you also showed her that you put way too much importance and value in having a date with her. you might as well just move on, she will probably never go out with you now.
 
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