"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solo's Fun Game Survey

Solomon

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Hey guys, I made this survey, the first Ten questions go in conjunction with the pictures, please answer honestly, thanks!!

Survey Number One


Pic 1 for question 1

Pic 2 for question 2

Pic 3 for question 3

Pic 4 for question 4

Pic 5 for question 5


Pic 6 for question 6

No pic for 7



Pic 8 for question 8


Pic 9 for question 9

Pic 10 for question 10


I couldn't post survey two here because the site is finnckey on the html coding (whereas the first survey is posted as a link form) so I posted it http://sjones84.blogspot.com/2010/12/more-facebook-fail-sighsolos-fun-game.htmlhere(survey number two)(just scroll to the bottom)

Thanks guys!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Warrior74

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Number 8 is pants. I've been there (not over a girl, over some other stuff). I just told the guy, look, I'm at work. I'm not coming out to fight you and lose my job. I'm calling the cops. Good luck.

We sorted it all out with a sitdown later and fixed it.
 

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This was fun! haha solo you have the funnest things to do.

When do we find out about the survey results?
 

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I did your first survey and was doing the second when my browser crashed :cuss:

However in your question in the second survey about improving the blog: I would allow people to comment anonymously. When I tried to comment it said I needed to choose a "profile" whether it was facebook, aim or blogspot or whatever. If you remove that I'm certain a lot more people who are reading will comment :cheer:
 

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Warrior74 said:
Number 8 is pants. I've been there (not over a girl, over some other stuff). I just told the guy, look, I'm at work. I'm not coming out to fight you and lose my job. I'm calling the cops. Good luck.

We sorted it all out with a sitdown later and fixed it.
Yeah Warrior I hear ya, the question actually was inspired by a guy I use to hang with. He was in a situation a couple years ago were he was banging this girl. The girl had a simp boyfriend who would pay her rent/bills etc. He found out my buddy was banging her as well and showed up to his apartment complex, he was standing outside my buddies car threatening to bash it(somehow he still got his number and address scary)luckily my buddy was quick enough to calm the guy down.


@Jon--around next week or so

ArcBound said:
I did your first survey and was doing the second when my browser crashed :cuss:

However in your question in the second survey about improving the blog: I would allow people to comment anonymously. When I tried to comment it said I needed to choose a "profile" whether it was facebook, aim or blogspot or whatever. If you remove that I'm certain a lot more people who are reading will comment :cheer:
Hey Arc, damn I feel stupid now, thanks for the heads up the change has been made!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Did I pass?
 
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