"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Solo's Fun Game Survey

Solomon

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Hey guys, I made this survey, the first Ten questions go in conjunction with the pictures, please answer honestly, thanks!!

Survey Number One


Pic 1 for question 1

Pic 2 for question 2

Pic 3 for question 3

Pic 4 for question 4

Pic 5 for question 5


Pic 6 for question 6

No pic for 7



Pic 8 for question 8


Pic 9 for question 9

Pic 10 for question 10


I couldn't post survey two here because the site is finnckey on the html coding (whereas the first survey is posted as a link form) so I posted it http://sjones84.blogspot.com/2010/12/more-facebook-fail-sighsolos-fun-game.htmlhere(survey number two)(just scroll to the bottom)

Thanks guys!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warrior74

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Number 8 is pants. I've been there (not over a girl, over some other stuff). I just told the guy, look, I'm at work. I'm not coming out to fight you and lose my job. I'm calling the cops. Good luck.

We sorted it all out with a sitdown later and fixed it.
 

j0n24

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This was fun! haha solo you have the funnest things to do.

When do we find out about the survey results?
 

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I did your first survey and was doing the second when my browser crashed :cuss:

However in your question in the second survey about improving the blog: I would allow people to comment anonymously. When I tried to comment it said I needed to choose a "profile" whether it was facebook, aim or blogspot or whatever. If you remove that I'm certain a lot more people who are reading will comment :cheer:
 

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Warrior74 said:
Number 8 is pants. I've been there (not over a girl, over some other stuff). I just told the guy, look, I'm at work. I'm not coming out to fight you and lose my job. I'm calling the cops. Good luck.

We sorted it all out with a sitdown later and fixed it.
Yeah Warrior I hear ya, the question actually was inspired by a guy I use to hang with. He was in a situation a couple years ago were he was banging this girl. The girl had a simp boyfriend who would pay her rent/bills etc. He found out my buddy was banging her as well and showed up to his apartment complex, he was standing outside my buddies car threatening to bash it(somehow he still got his number and address scary)luckily my buddy was quick enough to calm the guy down.


@Jon--around next week or so

ArcBound said:
I did your first survey and was doing the second when my browser crashed :cuss:

However in your question in the second survey about improving the blog: I would allow people to comment anonymously. When I tried to comment it said I needed to choose a "profile" whether it was facebook, aim or blogspot or whatever. If you remove that I'm certain a lot more people who are reading will comment :cheer:
Hey Arc, damn I feel stupid now, thanks for the heads up the change has been made!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Did I pass?
 
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