"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Soft fat and hard fat?

MrGold

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Whats the difference between them? I've got abit of soft fat around my abdominals, how do I get rid of it? Is is any different to hard fat, eg. pot bellied men?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex

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um, there's only one sort of adipose tissue and only one way to get rid of it: diet and exercise.
 

BluEyes

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He might be referring to the other type of fat storage...

Theres the subcutaneous(sp?) that's just under the skin and is "soft".

And then there's the fat that deposits around internal organs such as intestines. you'd still have the relatively muscular exterior, but nevertheless a pot belly b/c the fat is inside instead.

Alex's post is also right though, there aren't 2 diffrent kinds of fat, just different places for it to be stored.
 

spesmilitis

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^^^^

hmmm, that might be the reason for some people having a six pack but a belly that sticks out. How do you get rid of the 'internal' fat?
 

BluEyes

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*sigh*

See Alex's post.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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spesmilitis

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^^^
MMA-ers Jeff Monson and Chuck Lidel has had this kinda stomach forever. Ripped abs but his stomach still bulges out. Same with. Those guys are in awesome physical condition and spent a lot of calories a day with their training. Diet and exercise do not seem to working their 'internal' fat.
 
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