Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Soft fat and hard fat?

MrGold

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Whats the difference between them? I've got abit of soft fat around my abdominals, how do I get rid of it? Is is any different to hard fat, eg. pot bellied men?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warboss Alex

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um, there's only one sort of adipose tissue and only one way to get rid of it: diet and exercise.
 

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He might be referring to the other type of fat storage...

Theres the subcutaneous(sp?) that's just under the skin and is "soft".

And then there's the fat that deposits around internal organs such as intestines. you'd still have the relatively muscular exterior, but nevertheless a pot belly b/c the fat is inside instead.

Alex's post is also right though, there aren't 2 diffrent kinds of fat, just different places for it to be stored.
 

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^^^^

hmmm, that might be the reason for some people having a six pack but a belly that sticks out. How do you get rid of the 'internal' fat?
 

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*sigh*

See Alex's post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spesmilitis

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^^^
MMA-ers Jeff Monson and Chuck Lidel has had this kinda stomach forever. Ripped abs but his stomach still bulges out. Same with. Those guys are in awesome physical condition and spent a lot of calories a day with their training. Diet and exercise do not seem to working their 'internal' fat.
 
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