"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Social tips for an aspergers sufferer

sambwoy

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I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think. I am 25 and have been mislead a lot in that sense for too long. Its affected my youth and everything I do for too long. I hate being treated like 'special needs' but I can't seem to manage without some support on a daily basis. Does anyone have to know I have aspergers?

Also, I wanted to add its taken me a long time to break the ice with women. When I was 17/18 a lot of girls laughed at me in college for no apparent reason, which prevented my socializing for a good few years.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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evan12

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you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
start talking with people in voice throw internet chat rooms , so your feeling of rejection will get lower and you will love people more .
if you have no problem in work , then try to plan to be rich ,females in the end look for men with resources to start breading ;)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Samboy,
Aspergers is a bogus condition....they even fit Einstein into it...What's normal anyway?....It takes all kinds to make a World..You are 25,The World is your Oyster,follow the advice offered here and in the Manosphere forums generally,soon you will have Girls dripping off you ...I swear that to you on my Bank Managers life LOL.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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sambwoy said:
I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think.
That should make it easy to approach pretty much anybody and try out some game. Focus on the results you want, not the feelings that keep you from getting there. Keep trying until you get the results you want.
 
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yyc12

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evan12 said:
you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
Complete nonesense...autism is diagnosed mostly during infancy. No child during this stage is even aware of the concept of lonely.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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