Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Social tips for an aspergers sufferer

sambwoy

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I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think. I am 25 and have been mislead a lot in that sense for too long. Its affected my youth and everything I do for too long. I hate being treated like 'special needs' but I can't seem to manage without some support on a daily basis. Does anyone have to know I have aspergers?

Also, I wanted to add its taken me a long time to break the ice with women. When I was 17/18 a lot of girls laughed at me in college for no apparent reason, which prevented my socializing for a good few years.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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evan12

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you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
start talking with people in voice throw internet chat rooms , so your feeling of rejection will get lower and you will love people more .
if you have no problem in work , then try to plan to be rich ,females in the end look for men with resources to start breading ;)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Samboy,
Aspergers is a bogus condition....they even fit Einstein into it...What's normal anyway?....It takes all kinds to make a World..You are 25,The World is your Oyster,follow the advice offered here and in the Manosphere forums generally,soon you will have Girls dripping off you ...I swear that to you on my Bank Managers life LOL.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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sambwoy said:
I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think.
That should make it easy to approach pretty much anybody and try out some game. Focus on the results you want, not the feelings that keep you from getting there. Keep trying until you get the results you want.
 
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yyc12

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evan12 said:
you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
Complete nonesense...autism is diagnosed mostly during infancy. No child during this stage is even aware of the concept of lonely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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