"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Social tips for an aspergers sufferer

sambwoy

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I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think. I am 25 and have been mislead a lot in that sense for too long. Its affected my youth and everything I do for too long. I hate being treated like 'special needs' but I can't seem to manage without some support on a daily basis. Does anyone have to know I have aspergers?

Also, I wanted to add its taken me a long time to break the ice with women. When I was 17/18 a lot of girls laughed at me in college for no apparent reason, which prevented my socializing for a good few years.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evan12

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you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
start talking with people in voice throw internet chat rooms , so your feeling of rejection will get lower and you will love people more .
if you have no problem in work , then try to plan to be rich ,females in the end look for men with resources to start breading ;)
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Samboy,
Aspergers is a bogus condition....they even fit Einstein into it...What's normal anyway?....It takes all kinds to make a World..You are 25,The World is your Oyster,follow the advice offered here and in the Manosphere forums generally,soon you will have Girls dripping off you ...I swear that to you on my Bank Managers life LOL.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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sambwoy said:
I am getting to the point of not caring what people say or do or think.
That should make it easy to approach pretty much anybody and try out some game. Focus on the results you want, not the feelings that keep you from getting there. Keep trying until you get the results you want.
 
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yyc12

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evan12 said:
you need more socializing , autism (IMO ) comes mainly from loneliness in childhood .
Complete nonesense...autism is diagnosed mostly during infancy. No child during this stage is even aware of the concept of lonely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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