"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Social proof
- Thread starter Redwolf
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Glassguy
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As a rule of thumb I think it is far more important to establish your social "proof" in real life. Go to events, social circles, etc.
You cant build those things on the internet through social media.
RickTheToad
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This. I do not use SM at. I'd rather remain a mystery. Besides, just because one person thinks a post is cool, it may scare away other ladies. Never a good thing to post stupid sh it on SM. So, just don't have one.
MrWood
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I even pull from IG having 3 dates 2 lays.
Linked Tinder > IG has created social proof there as well. (Most of my Tinder dates/lays checked out or I referred to my IG)
out on a real date, show her your IG... proof of your travels, status, view on life etc. My IG has upped my perceived game 100% and added unmeasurable social proof
Actually... from chatting to a 25yo HB8.5 lawyer from China, who was my seat mate on a flight, showing her my pics etc on IG... she was holding my hand by the time we were ready to l and... all Ican say is that you can add social proof from social media.