"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Social proof
- Thread starter Redwolf
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Glassguy
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As a rule of thumb I think it is far more important to establish your social "proof" in real life. Go to events, social circles, etc.
You cant build those things on the internet through social media.
RickTheToad
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This. I do not use SM at. I'd rather remain a mystery. Besides, just because one person thinks a post is cool, it may scare away other ladies. Never a good thing to post stupid sh it on SM. So, just don't have one.
MrWood
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I even pull from IG having 3 dates 2 lays.
Linked Tinder > IG has created social proof there as well. (Most of my Tinder dates/lays checked out or I referred to my IG)
out on a real date, show her your IG... proof of your travels, status, view on life etc. My IG has upped my perceived game 100% and added unmeasurable social proof
Actually... from chatting to a 25yo HB8.5 lawyer from China, who was my seat mate on a flight, showing her my pics etc on IG... she was holding my hand by the time we were ready to l and... all Ican say is that you can add social proof from social media.