"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Social Proof pictures good?

baurman

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So this past weekend me and my friends went out and I made sure I brought a camera because I read about if you take pictures of who you hang out with and your friends it gives a validity of "social proof"

Are these pictures good enough for Social Proof? I'm the guy in the blue striped shirt and then in the black shirt w/ the hat in the later pics.

http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/1-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/2-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/3-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_cc3a28060eccb6120582c0fd112d46ce.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_b51da16281c6ed152bbd03b83b2a5f3e.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg

Do I look like I stand out the most in the pictures so when a girl looks at it on myspace they will see that I'm quite busy? If not, who does that way I could most likely try to get better and be the one that provides that "aura" when stepping into the room (i.e. when you go into a club, walk in like you own the joint.)

Also, is it bad to have pictures of me and a lot of different girls? Especially if a girl looks at my MySpace, I don't want them to think like "Wow this guy's a man wh0re!" wouldn't that ruin some chances with them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SLY

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You look drunk in most of them.

Tell ya what, why don't you go out and hone your skills outside of the internet. Forget online dating.
 

zinc64

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The girl seriously looks like she could be a hooker.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ready123

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those pictures are fine, especially if you're down w/ the Asian scene. you got that Asian blush going from the drinking but it doesn't really matter because you're not a fob, lol

you like partying and the pictures are congruent w/ having fun. that's all you need for social proof
 

meitenesrigas

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Microphone Fiend

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fvcking idiots... smh

anyways, I think this pic is the best
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg
because the others you are clearly drunk and teetering around, but this one has you and the girl you are with looking your best.

Pictures of girls will not make you look like a man-hor. Women often take pics with ppl of the opposite sex like 30 seconds after they meet em in the club so myspace/facebook pics are really not as major as most people think. Nothing trumps real life social proof in front of their eyes
 
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