"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Social Proof pictures good?

baurman

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So this past weekend me and my friends went out and I made sure I brought a camera because I read about if you take pictures of who you hang out with and your friends it gives a validity of "social proof"

Are these pictures good enough for Social Proof? I'm the guy in the blue striped shirt and then in the black shirt w/ the hat in the later pics.

http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/1-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/2-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/3-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_cc3a28060eccb6120582c0fd112d46ce.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_b51da16281c6ed152bbd03b83b2a5f3e.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg

Do I look like I stand out the most in the pictures so when a girl looks at it on myspace they will see that I'm quite busy? If not, who does that way I could most likely try to get better and be the one that provides that "aura" when stepping into the room (i.e. when you go into a club, walk in like you own the joint.)

Also, is it bad to have pictures of me and a lot of different girls? Especially if a girl looks at my MySpace, I don't want them to think like "Wow this guy's a man wh0re!" wouldn't that ruin some chances with them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SLY

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You look drunk in most of them.

Tell ya what, why don't you go out and hone your skills outside of the internet. Forget online dating.
 

zinc64

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The girl seriously looks like she could be a hooker.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ready123

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those pictures are fine, especially if you're down w/ the Asian scene. you got that Asian blush going from the drinking but it doesn't really matter because you're not a fob, lol

you like partying and the pictures are congruent w/ having fun. that's all you need for social proof
 

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Microphone Fiend

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fvcking idiots... smh

anyways, I think this pic is the best
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg
because the others you are clearly drunk and teetering around, but this one has you and the girl you are with looking your best.

Pictures of girls will not make you look like a man-hor. Women often take pics with ppl of the opposite sex like 30 seconds after they meet em in the club so myspace/facebook pics are really not as major as most people think. Nothing trumps real life social proof in front of their eyes
 
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