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Social Proof pictures good?

baurman

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So this past weekend me and my friends went out and I made sure I brought a camera because I read about if you take pictures of who you hang out with and your friends it gives a validity of "social proof"

Are these pictures good enough for Social Proof? I'm the guy in the blue striped shirt and then in the black shirt w/ the hat in the later pics.

http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/1-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/2-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/3-1.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_cc3a28060eccb6120582c0fd112d46ce.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_b51da16281c6ed152bbd03b83b2a5f3e.jpg
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg

Do I look like I stand out the most in the pictures so when a girl looks at it on myspace they will see that I'm quite busy? If not, who does that way I could most likely try to get better and be the one that provides that "aura" when stepping into the room (i.e. when you go into a club, walk in like you own the joint.)

Also, is it bad to have pictures of me and a lot of different girls? Especially if a girl looks at my MySpace, I don't want them to think like "Wow this guy's a man wh0re!" wouldn't that ruin some chances with them?
 

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SLY

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You look drunk in most of them.

Tell ya what, why don't you go out and hone your skills outside of the internet. Forget online dating.
 

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The girl seriously looks like she could be a hooker.
 

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ready123

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those pictures are fine, especially if you're down w/ the Asian scene. you got that Asian blush going from the drinking but it doesn't really matter because you're not a fob, lol

you like partying and the pictures are congruent w/ having fun. that's all you need for social proof
 

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Microphone Fiend

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fvcking idiots... smh

anyways, I think this pic is the best
http://i112.photobucket.com/albums/n193/sc8j5/l_712ad83a2ffd9475c4d8c319ace12871.jpg
because the others you are clearly drunk and teetering around, but this one has you and the girl you are with looking your best.

Pictures of girls will not make you look like a man-hor. Women often take pics with ppl of the opposite sex like 30 seconds after they meet em in the club so myspace/facebook pics are really not as major as most people think. Nothing trumps real life social proof in front of their eyes
 
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