“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Social Proof or Supplication

The_Lifter

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I'm a doorman at a club. There's a broad I'm looking to game, a HB7 - spectacular body with a comparatively non-spectacular face. She lives a few floors above me in my apartment block so she's seen me before in passing. A couple of days ago at the end of the night she came up, the conversation went like this:

Her: Hey, what's your name again?
Me: I don't think I've met you before ( This wasn't deliberate, I didn't actually recongnise her)
Her: I'm Sarah, I live above you...reels off address..I live with....
Me: Oh, yeah, I'm the_lifter, you're the girl that sent us a Christmas card right? (shaking the hand she offered, holding on to it longer than usual, making sure she notices)
Her: Yeah, that was us, did you put it somewhere special?
Me: Heh. Well, we put it on top of our T.V.

At this point I broke it off as it was kicking out time and I had to do my job. My question (finally) is that as I can get people in to the club area for free, should I have offered do that for her next time? I'm not sure whether this would be social proof (because I know the people who control access to the club) or is it a supplication (i.e I want to rail the living **** out of you, so here's a freebie to ease my passage). I know the conversation was pretty short, but where could I have improved.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gonzalo

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Girl was being nice/ giving you IOIs. Why didn't you go for the number?
 

Docs

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lol, he lives below her, that's why he didn't get the number. I'm sure you'll see her again, and then you can say to stick around so we can get a bite to eat, kicking out people is hard work :D
 

El MonoLoco

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You see her again.....ask her to go out or even better over to your place....if your neighbors it won't be that awkward.
Don't just start offering her things....that's giving in....

Ask her out on a date to the place where u work on your day off...that way you can get free drinks and you'll feel like you own the place.....it will give your confidence a huge boost and she'll notice..
 
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