"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Social Proof on Myspace

ILikeGirls<3

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So I started a myspace account, should I be looking to get alot of friends quickly or search for only people who look respectable? See if I am choosy, then it will be hard to get a lot of social proof, but if I am not then I could give a bad impression through my myspace friends, or worse have two or more of my soon to be plates find each other. I cant hide my friends then I won't have social proof at all.

I am looking for quality girls at first, *****s later if I fail with the good ones, so thats my plan. Whats the best route?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Deacon

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get at least 100 friends, put presentable ones in your top 8. You'll be fine.
 

Bible_Belt

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Add the hb7+ girls from whatever myspace group interests you. For me, it is law, motorcycles, and martial arts. Make sure your profile reflects whatever interests you choose.
 

SinJester

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Should your about me be short or long? I'm leaning towards short.
 

Bonafide

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I have 3,048 myspace friends. My top friends are family & girls and dudes im cool with but if you were to go through all of my friends... you'd find the majority are hb8 and up.

No im not a myspace addict, its just that I do alot of ****, including music, graphic design & basketball and im pretty good at all of them and alot of people add me randomly... and im not going to decline them, im not an ass...plus, who doesnt like meeting new people?


As far as how your about me should be, I tried this out. At one time I wrote a whole ****ing about me... girls (that didnt know me of course) loved it for some reason saying that I must be smart, educated and all that other ****... and on top of that they had things to ask me about from reading it, so it was easy to find common interests.

Right now I have no about me. Just did away with it.

Question. Im constantly getting adds from girls who go to my school and they would not have gotten my page from me, so it's kind of odd. What does this mean? Are they too shy? OR should I take action? Even though most of them are like hb6-7, besides one who was like an 8.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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