"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Social Proof on Myspace

ILikeGirls<3

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So I started a myspace account, should I be looking to get alot of friends quickly or search for only people who look respectable? See if I am choosy, then it will be hard to get a lot of social proof, but if I am not then I could give a bad impression through my myspace friends, or worse have two or more of my soon to be plates find each other. I cant hide my friends then I won't have social proof at all.

I am looking for quality girls at first, *****s later if I fail with the good ones, so thats my plan. Whats the best route?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Deacon

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get at least 100 friends, put presentable ones in your top 8. You'll be fine.
 

Bible_Belt

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Add the hb7+ girls from whatever myspace group interests you. For me, it is law, motorcycles, and martial arts. Make sure your profile reflects whatever interests you choose.
 

SinJester

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Should your about me be short or long? I'm leaning towards short.
 

Bonafide

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I have 3,048 myspace friends. My top friends are family & girls and dudes im cool with but if you were to go through all of my friends... you'd find the majority are hb8 and up.

No im not a myspace addict, its just that I do alot of ****, including music, graphic design & basketball and im pretty good at all of them and alot of people add me randomly... and im not going to decline them, im not an ass...plus, who doesnt like meeting new people?


As far as how your about me should be, I tried this out. At one time I wrote a whole ****ing about me... girls (that didnt know me of course) loved it for some reason saying that I must be smart, educated and all that other ****... and on top of that they had things to ask me about from reading it, so it was easy to find common interests.

Right now I have no about me. Just did away with it.

Question. Im constantly getting adds from girls who go to my school and they would not have gotten my page from me, so it's kind of odd. What does this mean? Are they too shy? OR should I take action? Even though most of them are like hb6-7, besides one who was like an 8.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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