"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Social Proof on Myspace

ILikeGirls<3

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So I started a myspace account, should I be looking to get alot of friends quickly or search for only people who look respectable? See if I am choosy, then it will be hard to get a lot of social proof, but if I am not then I could give a bad impression through my myspace friends, or worse have two or more of my soon to be plates find each other. I cant hide my friends then I won't have social proof at all.

I am looking for quality girls at first, *****s later if I fail with the good ones, so thats my plan. Whats the best route?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Deacon

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get at least 100 friends, put presentable ones in your top 8. You'll be fine.
 

Bible_Belt

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Add the hb7+ girls from whatever myspace group interests you. For me, it is law, motorcycles, and martial arts. Make sure your profile reflects whatever interests you choose.
 

SinJester

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Should your about me be short or long? I'm leaning towards short.
 

Bonafide

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I have 3,048 myspace friends. My top friends are family & girls and dudes im cool with but if you were to go through all of my friends... you'd find the majority are hb8 and up.

No im not a myspace addict, its just that I do alot of ****, including music, graphic design & basketball and im pretty good at all of them and alot of people add me randomly... and im not going to decline them, im not an ass...plus, who doesnt like meeting new people?


As far as how your about me should be, I tried this out. At one time I wrote a whole ****ing about me... girls (that didnt know me of course) loved it for some reason saying that I must be smart, educated and all that other ****... and on top of that they had things to ask me about from reading it, so it was easy to find common interests.

Right now I have no about me. Just did away with it.

Question. Im constantly getting adds from girls who go to my school and they would not have gotten my page from me, so it's kind of odd. What does this mean? Are they too shy? OR should I take action? Even though most of them are like hb6-7, besides one who was like an 8.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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