"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Guys,
I know I am supposed to read the DJ Bible and Bootcamp before I post, but I have this situation-- Where I live almost everyone know me (as a dork). I have known these people since middle school; I never had any 'girl'-friends. I think this complex has followed me to high school: I was a loner during my freshman year & didn't talk to anyone except my usual friends(they're cool, but they don't play the dating game); during my sophmore year I was pretty cool and I had friends, I talked to girls (about school mostly, never casually). All that is in the past, but the problem is If I change anything about myself except for my looks I will come off as fake. Please Help!?!?!?!?!
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Depends what you mean by "change." If by change, you mean learning lines and "tactics," than YES, you will come off as being fake.

But if you build genuine confidence, warmth and social skills, than no, it won't be seen as "fake," merely growth.

But anyways, you shouldn't be so worried about how others see you. You were not brought on this earth to satisfy anyones expectations apart from your own.

Cheers!
 
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been thru thi dilemma myself, becoming who you want to be is something where what others think shouldnt be a prob, remember that you can just change a few things, and remember that youre developing your own style on this and that you wont be doing things you dont wnat to do.
 
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Levi said:
Hi Guys,
I know I am supposed to read the DJ Bible and Bootcamp before I post, but I have this situation-- Please Help!?!?!?!?!
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You know you should read, yet you choose not to.

You ask for help, but where is the question?

Your thread will soon be Closed or Deleted... Look out for the up & coming event.
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B-Lemond, I am 3/4's through the bible and the question is there. If two people responded to it, the question is definitely there.:crazy: :cheer: I definitely didn't like the tone of your post:nono:
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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