"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'd like to hear more about this myself. I'm dealing with a nasty separation from my wife and I need to get some plates going for my own self-respect. I don't have any interest in bars, so I was thinking of getting involved in social groups on meetup.com, too.

Anybody have any experiences to share?
 

Von_S

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I've done a good amount of this stuff. It's hit or miss, in my experience there are a decent amount of single girls there, of course to varying degrees of attractiveness. Either way its a good way to just meet girls, try new game, up your social standing and make friends
 

konmai

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I started one back in late March. Since I lead, all the girls contact me. Not interested in anyone right now, just building a nice social proof of ladies & social skills. :rock: Being around lots of beautiful women helps with not falling all over myself, when I do cold approaches. You get used to being around them and socializing with them that it's just normal.

Interestingly a girl who was very much my type fell into my lap, when I was headed to one of these events back around April maybe. I posted about it here. If it wasn't for me doing this, I think I would have automatically put her on a pedestal but instead, I treated her like I would have anyone else which led to her wanting me. :yes:

Doubt I'd want a plate from one of these events, but it helps to put myself out there, so that I do bump into a girl I like, and I'll be ready with my A-game.
 

Leporello

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They're a great way to just get out there and meet a great number of people. Sure the quality varies widely but that's life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CostaDeSol

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I've been to a few meetups. They're nice depending on what groups you go to.

Some groups are definitely just to find hook ups. And if you become one of the organizers you can increase your chances of adding plates.

most of the groups though are much more about just meeting people to hang out with. However this can be a good thing because they will invite you to their social events and you will get to increase your social circle.
 
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