Social Circles Are The Best!

[freshstartin2008]

OK, I posted before about girls approaching guys. I think one of the best, sure ways to get girls to approach and open first is by developing social circles. For example, the last two seminars I've taken, I've had a half dozen girls open me on the first day.

The commonality of the seminar allows girls to feel more comfortable being social with us guys. It's an automatic ice breaker.

I do have a question however.

First, since girls find it so easy to open and approach guys in seminars and in all social circle settings, why is there such an emphasis on "cold approaching?" Or, am I mistaken. Maybe girls DO NOT approach guys even in social circle situations like seminars? What's up with that?

 

[ready123]

seminars have nothing to do with social circles. social circles = your friends socially proofing you, letting you draw state off them. you getting opened on the first day of class is something different

and why cold approaching vs social circle game? social circle game is like alcohol - it temporarily hides your inner game deficiencies. you're drawing state off external things (having your friends around, being drunk) instead of yourself

 

[Snow Plowman]

You have the term social circle all mixed up...

Anywho...the emphasis is on cold approaching because you are learning to meet a TOTAL STRANGER anywhere at anytime...so with that said your options are limitless...as opposed to other ways...you have to rely on what's there...

If you know how to cold approach then everything else is 100x easier...

 

[macallik]

^^^what he said. Social circles are cool if the people you know are hot and sexy but what about that cutie you see walking down the street randomly on a Saturday afternoon?

 

[freshstartin2008]

What I mean by social circles are groups of people who either are already friends or become friends by meeting for a common purpose, like an organization. The benefit here is that these types of meeting places allow for people to gradually get to know each other. It has reduced flakage MASSIVELY, if you know what I mean.