Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Wow These two are happily married. Sometimes the set up can be just as easy as this…why is it so complicated sometimes?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Social Circle game- here’s a classic example.
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
pipeman84
Master Don Juan
Unless you have close access to them in real life, you can't determine if they're happily married or not. Lots of couples out there portraying heaven on social media when they actually live in hell.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
And Even if you had it still would be difficult to tell the real thing
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You see posts like this and then they file for divorce a week or two later.
Stop believing what you see on social media. People carefully curate it to portray them as they want to be seen by others not as they actually are.
Better yet, get rid of social media completely and live your life in the real world not online.
Stop believing what you see on social media. People carefully curate it to portray them as they want to be seen by others not as they actually are.
Better yet, get rid of social media completely and live your life in the real world not online.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Many couples of friends have this perfect social media but when you "live" or spend most of your time with them you realize that it is anything but roses and flowers.
But I also think that these people are sharing beautiful moments, and especially women are looking for validation for what they are doing, because they feel not validated by the people around them, first of all, their man
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.