Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Wow These two are happily married. Sometimes the set up can be just as easy as this…why is it so complicated sometimes?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Social Circle game- here’s a classic example.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
pipeman84
Master Don Juan
Unless you have close access to them in real life, you can't determine if they're happily married or not. Lots of couples out there portraying heaven on social media when they actually live in hell.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
And Even if you had it still would be difficult to tell the real thing
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You see posts like this and then they file for divorce a week or two later.
Stop believing what you see on social media. People carefully curate it to portray them as they want to be seen by others not as they actually are.
Better yet, get rid of social media completely and live your life in the real world not online.
Stop believing what you see on social media. People carefully curate it to portray them as they want to be seen by others not as they actually are.
Better yet, get rid of social media completely and live your life in the real world not online.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Many couples of friends have this perfect social media but when you "live" or spend most of your time with them you realize that it is anything but roses and flowers.
But I also think that these people are sharing beautiful moments, and especially women are looking for validation for what they are doing, because they feel not validated by the people around them, first of all, their man
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.