"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sometimes I look at society & think people are wasting their lives working all week

I think life is for living

When I was 19-21 I thought well everyone else is working all week so I'll have to do it. I decided that I would do something that I enjoyed though. My thoughts were that I would get a security job , long & unsociable hours, but at least I wouldn't be working in a job doing something I didn't want to do. I couldn't see the logic in doing something most of the week that you didn't want to do
On my job I can read books, watch tv, study & go on internet.

Nobody enjoys work, do they.

I'm asking what you guys think of society? It's actually just dawned on me that this is something I want to look at & study soceity as well as women & don juaning of course =)

Maybe society IS set up correctly. Sometimes I feel like a free spirit who looks at society as boring, repetitive, organised. I want to Live

I am an Aquarius so maybe I'm more of the track than others

Some people are never happy though. They would get this other life & not want it. Some people always want more.

Sooner or later I might really accept society & push myself to accept it & succeed in it. I don't think I've ever really accepted soceity
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You don't really have a choice. You want to go against the rules? It may work out for you for awhile, but eventually you'll get cut down. Ask any gangster.
 

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Life is mean, boring and short. Get used to it....
 

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Let me guess. You don't "accept society" but you...

Buy food that was made by groups of people organized by groups of people, delivered, distributed, and sold by groups of people.

Use products (like beds, clothes, car, gas, electricity, etc) that was invented, made, organized, shipped, distributed, sold by groups of people.

Nobody can escape society.

Even the famous Walden Pond was a scam. Thoreau went into town on weekends to buy supplies, went to the local pubs at night, and even did his laundry at his mum's on the weekend.

And after his "back to nature" experiment failed because Emerson kicked his ass out, he went back to work in his father's factory.
 

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Who gives a fvck about your astrological sign. Jesus. That sh1t means nothing. S
Also magic doesn't exist nor do ghosts.

If there its a God, he is indifferent, he doesn't love you or hate you. He its just there. We have free will.

The fvck man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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VikingKing said:
Who gives a fvck about your astrological sign. Jesus. That sh1t means nothing. S
Also magic doesn't exist nor do ghosts.

If there its a God, he is indifferent, he doesn't love you or hate you. He its just there. We have free will.

The fvck man.
Let's clarify this. He is there, he loves you, but he only appears indifferent towards you if you are indifferent towards him. We do have free will as to whether or not to trust him.

If you've tried all everything else, I suggest you try trusting in God for a while. Not just a day, or a week, but for a sustained period, and see if your outlook changes.
 

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Still look at doing something you don't want to do for forty hours a week as wasting ones life
 

Rainman4707

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Haha :) no, I work hard.

People doing something that they don't want to do has been on my mind recently.
 
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Rainman4707 said:
Haha :) no, I work hard.

People doing something that they don't want to do has been on my mind recently.
Work is work. It isn't always fun. This video may help you out:

Here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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