"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sometimes I look at society & think people are wasting their lives working all week

I think life is for living

When I was 19-21 I thought well everyone else is working all week so I'll have to do it. I decided that I would do something that I enjoyed though. My thoughts were that I would get a security job , long & unsociable hours, but at least I wouldn't be working in a job doing something I didn't want to do. I couldn't see the logic in doing something most of the week that you didn't want to do
On my job I can read books, watch tv, study & go on internet.

Nobody enjoys work, do they.

I'm asking what you guys think of society? It's actually just dawned on me that this is something I want to look at & study soceity as well as women & don juaning of course =)

Maybe society IS set up correctly. Sometimes I feel like a free spirit who looks at society as boring, repetitive, organised. I want to Live

I am an Aquarius so maybe I'm more of the track than others

Some people are never happy though. They would get this other life & not want it. Some people always want more.

Sooner or later I might really accept society & push myself to accept it & succeed in it. I don't think I've ever really accepted soceity
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You don't really have a choice. You want to go against the rules? It may work out for you for awhile, but eventually you'll get cut down. Ask any gangster.
 

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Life is mean, boring and short. Get used to it....
 

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Let me guess. You don't "accept society" but you...

Buy food that was made by groups of people organized by groups of people, delivered, distributed, and sold by groups of people.

Use products (like beds, clothes, car, gas, electricity, etc) that was invented, made, organized, shipped, distributed, sold by groups of people.

Nobody can escape society.

Even the famous Walden Pond was a scam. Thoreau went into town on weekends to buy supplies, went to the local pubs at night, and even did his laundry at his mum's on the weekend.

And after his "back to nature" experiment failed because Emerson kicked his ass out, he went back to work in his father's factory.
 

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Who gives a fvck about your astrological sign. Jesus. That sh1t means nothing. S
Also magic doesn't exist nor do ghosts.

If there its a God, he is indifferent, he doesn't love you or hate you. He its just there. We have free will.

The fvck man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VikingKing said:
Who gives a fvck about your astrological sign. Jesus. That sh1t means nothing. S
Also magic doesn't exist nor do ghosts.

If there its a God, he is indifferent, he doesn't love you or hate you. He its just there. We have free will.

The fvck man.
Let's clarify this. He is there, he loves you, but he only appears indifferent towards you if you are indifferent towards him. We do have free will as to whether or not to trust him.

If you've tried all everything else, I suggest you try trusting in God for a while. Not just a day, or a week, but for a sustained period, and see if your outlook changes.
 

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Still look at doing something you don't want to do for forty hours a week as wasting ones life
 

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Haha :) no, I work hard.

People doing something that they don't want to do has been on my mind recently.
 
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Haha :) no, I work hard.

People doing something that they don't want to do has been on my mind recently.
Work is work. It isn't always fun. This video may help you out:

Here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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