"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Soccer Teammate deletes me from Facebook. Confrontation monday.

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My soccer Teammate Bradley just deleted me from facebook.

I messaged him "WTF man?", he did not respond.

I don't understand why he deleted me, it's totally disrespectful, so I have to

play with him on the same team, see him at all the practices, and all the

games.

So I am planning on confronting him in person on Monday to ask him why

he did such a thing.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do you care? Is he a good friend of yours or are you just worried about losing your FB acquaintance posse?
 
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Omerta said:
Why do you care? Is he a good friend of yours or are you just worried about losing your FB acquaintance posse?
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He was a potential friend to be, but he choose to terminate our potential friendship.

I am going to confront him about this on Monday!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you should ask him to shower with you after the game
 
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You should write him a suicide note, then cut your wrists. THATLL SHOW EM!
 
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slit your wrists, you'll do humanity a great favor.
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You are not alone, I am sure everyone I've met wants me to kill myself. Why should I give them (you) the pleasure.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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In all seriousness, i'm sure alot of people want me to kill myself, but I will never do that, because I don't want to give anyone that satisfaction. Know that I will be alive and love awkward moments.
 
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are you sure you dont want to ask Brad to join you in the showers after the game? i think that may be why those other guys didnt want to hang out with you in the first place, you asked them to go to a bar instead of just going straight into the showers with you
 
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foreverAFC said:
are you sure you dont want to ask Brad to join you in the showers after the game? i think that may be why those other guys didnt want to hang out with you in the first place, you asked them to go to a bar instead of just going straight into the showers with you
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hmm no man ,i think the reason they didn't want to hang out is because he didn't offer "lubrication" during the showers :crackup:
 
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WHAT ABOUT THE COACH?

He hasn't kicked you off the team, I think he likes you. ;) ;) ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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