"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Soccer Teammate deletes me from Facebook. Confrontation monday.

TheLoner

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My soccer Teammate Bradley just deleted me from facebook.

I messaged him "WTF man?", he did not respond.

I don't understand why he deleted me, it's totally disrespectful, so I have to

play with him on the same team, see him at all the practices, and all the

games.

So I am planning on confronting him in person on Monday to ask him why

he did such a thing.

What do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Omerta

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Why do you care? Is he a good friend of yours or are you just worried about losing your FB acquaintance posse?
 

TheLoner

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Omerta said:
Why do you care? Is he a good friend of yours or are you just worried about losing your FB acquaintance posse?
He was a potential friend to be, but he choose to terminate our potential friendship.

I am going to confront him about this on Monday!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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foreverAFC

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you should ask him to shower with you after the game
 

Swampcamel

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You should write him a suicide note, then cut your wrists. THATLL SHOW EM!
 

TheLoner

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switch said:
slit your wrists, you'll do humanity a great favor.
You are not alone, I am sure everyone I've met wants me to kill myself. Why should I give them (you) the pleasure.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheLoner

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In all seriousness, i'm sure alot of people want me to kill myself, but I will never do that, because I don't want to give anyone that satisfaction. Know that I will be alive and love awkward moments.
 

foreverAFC

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are you sure you dont want to ask Brad to join you in the showers after the game? i think that may be why those other guys didnt want to hang out with you in the first place, you asked them to go to a bar instead of just going straight into the showers with you
 

switch

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foreverAFC said:
are you sure you dont want to ask Brad to join you in the showers after the game? i think that may be why those other guys didnt want to hang out with you in the first place, you asked them to go to a bar instead of just going straight into the showers with you
hmm no man ,i think the reason they didn't want to hang out is because he didn't offer "lubrication" during the showers :crackup:
 

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WHAT ABOUT THE COACH?

He hasn't kicked you off the team, I think he likes you. ;) ;) ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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