"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Soccer Game?

Jokerlsk

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Ok, so i'm new on this site and need some advice on how to game a certain girl. Anyway, i asked a girl to go to a soccer game with me this friday she agreed so that's not the problem. The problem is i've only been on two dates previous to this and i fvcked them up big time. This girl is about a HB6 and she is inexperienced as well, but probly a bit more experienced than myself. So the question is, how do i go on this simple date without screwing it up?
Advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sorry for double post, but i also forgot to mention that we have been friends for a while if that helps, and she just now started showing interest
 

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You cant learn it from a single post .

Go read DJ BIBLE , go more on dates and you will find out your answer .

But for now , for quick answer , here you have it :

Sleep before going out with her ( to have energy ) , get in the mood , be funny , ****y& funny .Be talkative , the one that leads conversation , be interesting , have stories to tell her and these things . But for me most important things are to have energy and to get in the mood . Thats all i need for perfect date/day/night.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks alot man, I will def. keep in mind the energy thing. With the ****y and funny part, me and my friends are usually the class clowns and it goes 50/50 with the girls. Either they think were hilarious, or think were really immature
 

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Dont treat it as a date.

If you refer to it as a date and think about messing up,YOU WILL MESS UP.

Act like youve known her for a long time.I mean shes inexperienced so you lead and show her the way.Take control.
 
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