"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Soccer Game?

Jokerlsk

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Ok, so i'm new on this site and need some advice on how to game a certain girl. Anyway, i asked a girl to go to a soccer game with me this friday she agreed so that's not the problem. The problem is i've only been on two dates previous to this and i fvcked them up big time. This girl is about a HB6 and she is inexperienced as well, but probly a bit more experienced than myself. So the question is, how do i go on this simple date without screwing it up?
Advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sorry for double post, but i also forgot to mention that we have been friends for a while if that helps, and she just now started showing interest
 

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You cant learn it from a single post .

Go read DJ BIBLE , go more on dates and you will find out your answer .

But for now , for quick answer , here you have it :

Sleep before going out with her ( to have energy ) , get in the mood , be funny , ****y& funny .Be talkative , the one that leads conversation , be interesting , have stories to tell her and these things . But for me most important things are to have energy and to get in the mood . Thats all i need for perfect date/day/night.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks alot man, I will def. keep in mind the energy thing. With the ****y and funny part, me and my friends are usually the class clowns and it goes 50/50 with the girls. Either they think were hilarious, or think were really immature
 

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Dont treat it as a date.

If you refer to it as a date and think about messing up,YOU WILL MESS UP.

Act like youve known her for a long time.I mean shes inexperienced so you lead and show her the way.Take control.
 
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