"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jokerlsk

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Ok, so i'm new on this site and need some advice on how to game a certain girl. Anyway, i asked a girl to go to a soccer game with me this friday she agreed so that's not the problem. The problem is i've only been on two dates previous to this and i fvcked them up big time. This girl is about a HB6 and she is inexperienced as well, but probly a bit more experienced than myself. So the question is, how do i go on this simple date without screwing it up?
Advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sorry for double post, but i also forgot to mention that we have been friends for a while if that helps, and she just now started showing interest
 

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You cant learn it from a single post .

Go read DJ BIBLE , go more on dates and you will find out your answer .

But for now , for quick answer , here you have it :

Sleep before going out with her ( to have energy ) , get in the mood , be funny , ****y& funny .Be talkative , the one that leads conversation , be interesting , have stories to tell her and these things . But for me most important things are to have energy and to get in the mood . Thats all i need for perfect date/day/night.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks alot man, I will def. keep in mind the energy thing. With the ****y and funny part, me and my friends are usually the class clowns and it goes 50/50 with the girls. Either they think were hilarious, or think were really immature
 

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Dont treat it as a date.

If you refer to it as a date and think about messing up,YOU WILL MESS UP.

Act like youve known her for a long time.I mean shes inexperienced so you lead and show her the way.Take control.
 
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