“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GaryUranga

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my game is at a point where my body language is really good, my tonality, everythign hell Im even gettign approched by chicks, half of them give me iois, a lot of them get nervous around me (im still a wee bit nervous myself around the new ones) but.. somehow, for some reason Im just not gettign tnat ease at talkign to them, theyre not gettign cofortable I dunno Im just workign on my own convo skills and crap I take it as its a lack on my side of the right convo skills so Im just gettign them, but.. does anyone have any advice
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay, so your primary problem is your conversatiom skills, as you stated above. Try pre-rehearsing a couple of stories before you go out and talk to these women, and share these stories with them to try to develop rapport with them. As you have raport with them, kino them slightly, and as the day goes on, they will become more comfortable with you.

You could be a bit more specific. Are the conversations you are engaging on not interesting enough? Are there awkward silences? Just be confident and charismatic, go with the flow, and as a DJ, you should ALWAYS have something to say, particularly at the beginning stages of rapport with a women. However, as the meetings become more frequent with the same people, they should start to talk to you more as they become comfortable around you.
 

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GaryUnga
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This is in the high school forum?

Well I think your ahead of me in a way. They will get comfortable around you after enough exposure. Perhaps a couple 'normal' talks. Just keep working on it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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What do you think you need to improve?
 

GaryUranga

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yehaits pretty obvious eh, Im gettign better quckly since I started being aggressive on monday, and yeah I posted in the HS formum because Ive always posted here and Im dealing with girls who are 17-18-19
 
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