"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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my game is at a point where my body language is really good, my tonality, everythign hell Im even gettign approched by chicks, half of them give me iois, a lot of them get nervous around me (im still a wee bit nervous myself around the new ones) but.. somehow, for some reason Im just not gettign tnat ease at talkign to them, theyre not gettign cofortable I dunno Im just workign on my own convo skills and crap I take it as its a lack on my side of the right convo skills so Im just gettign them, but.. does anyone have any advice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay, so your primary problem is your conversatiom skills, as you stated above. Try pre-rehearsing a couple of stories before you go out and talk to these women, and share these stories with them to try to develop rapport with them. As you have raport with them, kino them slightly, and as the day goes on, they will become more comfortable with you.

You could be a bit more specific. Are the conversations you are engaging on not interesting enough? Are there awkward silences? Just be confident and charismatic, go with the flow, and as a DJ, you should ALWAYS have something to say, particularly at the beginning stages of rapport with a women. However, as the meetings become more frequent with the same people, they should start to talk to you more as they become comfortable around you.
 
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GaryUnga
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This is in the high school forum?

Well I think your ahead of me in a way. They will get comfortable around you after enough exposure. Perhaps a couple 'normal' talks. Just keep working on it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you think you need to improve?
 
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yehaits pretty obvious eh, Im gettign better quckly since I started being aggressive on monday, and yeah I posted in the HS formum because Ive always posted here and Im dealing with girls who are 17-18-19
 
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