"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my game is at a point where my body language is really good, my tonality, everythign hell Im even gettign approched by chicks, half of them give me iois, a lot of them get nervous around me (im still a wee bit nervous myself around the new ones) but.. somehow, for some reason Im just not gettign tnat ease at talkign to them, theyre not gettign cofortable I dunno Im just workign on my own convo skills and crap I take it as its a lack on my side of the right convo skills so Im just gettign them, but.. does anyone have any advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay, so your primary problem is your conversatiom skills, as you stated above. Try pre-rehearsing a couple of stories before you go out and talk to these women, and share these stories with them to try to develop rapport with them. As you have raport with them, kino them slightly, and as the day goes on, they will become more comfortable with you.

You could be a bit more specific. Are the conversations you are engaging on not interesting enough? Are there awkward silences? Just be confident and charismatic, go with the flow, and as a DJ, you should ALWAYS have something to say, particularly at the beginning stages of rapport with a women. However, as the meetings become more frequent with the same people, they should start to talk to you more as they become comfortable around you.
 
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This is in the high school forum?

Well I think your ahead of me in a way. They will get comfortable around you after enough exposure. Perhaps a couple 'normal' talks. Just keep working on it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think you need to improve?
 
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yehaits pretty obvious eh, Im gettign better quckly since I started being aggressive on monday, and yeah I posted in the HS formum because Ive always posted here and Im dealing with girls who are 17-18-19
 
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