"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my game is at a point where my body language is really good, my tonality, everythign hell Im even gettign approched by chicks, half of them give me iois, a lot of them get nervous around me (im still a wee bit nervous myself around the new ones) but.. somehow, for some reason Im just not gettign tnat ease at talkign to them, theyre not gettign cofortable I dunno Im just workign on my own convo skills and crap I take it as its a lack on my side of the right convo skills so Im just gettign them, but.. does anyone have any advice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay, so your primary problem is your conversatiom skills, as you stated above. Try pre-rehearsing a couple of stories before you go out and talk to these women, and share these stories with them to try to develop rapport with them. As you have raport with them, kino them slightly, and as the day goes on, they will become more comfortable with you.

You could be a bit more specific. Are the conversations you are engaging on not interesting enough? Are there awkward silences? Just be confident and charismatic, go with the flow, and as a DJ, you should ALWAYS have something to say, particularly at the beginning stages of rapport with a women. However, as the meetings become more frequent with the same people, they should start to talk to you more as they become comfortable around you.
 
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This is in the high school forum?

Well I think your ahead of me in a way. They will get comfortable around you after enough exposure. Perhaps a couple 'normal' talks. Just keep working on it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What do you think you need to improve?
 
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yehaits pretty obvious eh, Im gettign better quckly since I started being aggressive on monday, and yeah I posted in the HS formum because Ive always posted here and Im dealing with girls who are 17-18-19
 
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