betheman said:
pretty much, but the true nutjobs, the weapons grade, stealth operators are soo good at it, most guys can sniff out the amateurs, they know something is off, some of the real predators though....different story!
hold something back, never go full throttle retard
Yes. The worst part about that is that sometimes they have such a normal behaviour that you think they changed, so you let your guard down. Once you did, they escalate their manipulation.
Even with master Psychopaths/Narcissists/Borderlines you realise something is wrong. You just have to be on your guard all the time, look out for patterns and most importantly; NEVER become dependant on someone with a personality disorder. They want you to become dependant on them so they can use it against you.
Being aware of people with PDs is very important to survive in todays social climate. Since so many people have had a terrible childhood many people today have Personality Disorders and will do everything they can to manipulate you. Being aware of their disorder makes you be on your guard and be sceptical to everything they do, because they always have a manipulative motive behind their action.
Sometimes a BPD/HPD does nice things to you, so she can use it against you later. If you start arguing with her, she will use the thing she did to make it seem like you are the black sheep who is taking advantage of her kindness. She will also talk to her friends and brag about how nice she was to you, and what an ungrateful bastard you are for not acknowledging her sweetness.
Men can have personality disorders aswell fyi. Plenty of guys are psychopaths/narcissists and plays the game so well.