"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so you want to avoid BPD's nutjobs, b!tches etc

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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noobolgy said:
Huh?
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Song is about coming out of a bullsh!t relationship described in the op, well that's how I interpret it anyway.
 
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noobolgy said:
I think all women do some of these things.
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pretty much, but the true nutjobs, the weapons grade, stealth operators are soo good at it, most guys can sniff out the amateurs, they know something is off, some of the real predators though....different story!
hold something back, never go full throttle retard
 
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betheman said:
pretty much, but the true nutjobs, the weapons grade, stealth operators are soo good at it, most guys can sniff out the amateurs, they know something is off, some of the real predators though....different story!
hold something back, never go full throttle retard
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Ok. Now how can you tell if a woman is bpd. I guess you would start to notice patterns? A gut feeling? Or is it that they just seem to good to be true? minimal **** testing, treating you with great respect, going out of there way to do the little things for you,
in the beginning.
 
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noobolgy said:
Ok. Now how can you tell if a woman is bpd. I guess you would start to notice patterns? A gut feeling? Or is it that they just seem to good to be true? minimal **** testing, treating you with great respect, in the beginning.
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the bold part! fvck me here, no we cant do that here....oooh ok, ive never done this before (yeah right) and somehow they seem so proficient at it?

the respect thing, if they blow you up, inflate your ego to new heights??? you feel ...hey this is new?? it is, its wrong
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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damn that hurt to read lol

of course i've been with girls like her, but i'm not convinced they did it deliberately. meaning, i don't think they acted that way with a plan.
when a girl texts you "omg why didn't you text me like you said bla bla bla" she really is acting off emotion, not a script, right?
It didn't change my view at all, just made me wonder how conscience girls are to what they're doing.
i guess that would be a female player though.

do female players like "being played?" Do they like it when a guy catches on to their game and plays back?

i've had some experience with girls who are "ahead of the curve" as far as game goes. i can tell they are trying to play games, but they do it in a confident way, like they want a guy who plays back, or at least knows the game.
maybe they are just more confident with dating overall, so they are more aware of the process?
 
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SirFratserlot said:
I thought OP's solution was going to be turn gay or something
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now why would that be?
 
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betheman said:
pretty much, but the true nutjobs, the weapons grade, stealth operators are soo good at it, most guys can sniff out the amateurs, they know something is off, some of the real predators though....different story!
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Yes. The worst part about that is that sometimes they have such a normal behaviour that you think they changed, so you let your guard down. Once you did, they escalate their manipulation.

Even with master Psychopaths/Narcissists/Borderlines you realise something is wrong. You just have to be on your guard all the time, look out for patterns and most importantly; NEVER become dependant on someone with a personality disorder. They want you to become dependant on them so they can use it against you.

Being aware of people with PDs is very important to survive in todays social climate. Since so many people have had a terrible childhood many people today have Personality Disorders and will do everything they can to manipulate you. Being aware of their disorder makes you be on your guard and be sceptical to everything they do, because they always have a manipulative motive behind their action.

Sometimes a BPD/HPD does nice things to you, so she can use it against you later. If you start arguing with her, she will use the thing she did to make it seem like you are the black sheep who is taking advantage of her kindness. She will also talk to her friends and brag about how nice she was to you, and what an ungrateful bastard you are for not acknowledging her sweetness.

Men can have personality disorders aswell fyi. Plenty of guys are psychopaths/narcissists and plays the game so well.
 
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noobolgy said:
I think all women do some of these things.
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I don't know about that. I've dated plenty and have a lot of women friends that don't do anything remotely close to what is on that list.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok. Now how can you tell if a woman is bpd. .
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They have no real friends.

They have no interests.

They want to spend every night with you.

The minute you tell them NO...and they FLIP OUT.
 
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noobolgy said:
Do all bpd cheat? Do some only emotionally cheat?
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Yep. Dealt with two. And i ignored the red flags because i was messed up in the head.

The emotional cheating was even so bad it was almost as worse as when i found out she physically cheated.

I remember one night i was driving to her neighbors for a bonfire, and as im passing her house her friend was outside wasted. BPD chick told me she was at a pistons game (and countlessly ignored my calls/texts which i brushed off as she was busy at the game). Then i ask her friend where shes at, and she goes "oh shes downstairs passed out, we left the game early can you take me home" I told her no and drove to my buddys, but i wish i would have walked down there . Would have probably caught her messing with some dude and saved alot of wasted time on that cvnt.

BPDS, the emotional pain they cause is more excruciating than any physical pain.
 
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