"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So you think you got it bad huh?

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No i never thought I had it bad

But yea, it would suck to be him. Good on him for making the most of himself
 

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I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dannyrt34

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KarmaSutra said:
I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
Unless they feel in the blank with the word confident. But even then, there's no good reason to lack confidence.

Come to think of it, last week I went out to a local bar which is a hotspot for the college croud. There was one girl there that had some sort of disability with her legs and uses them crutches that are attached to her wrists to get around. And this girl was also drop dead GORGEOUS. Only when she walked you could tell something is wrong, other than that there was nothing wrong with her legs or anything, no deformity whatsoever. She actually had a nice round toned ass and my god she was just amazing. Beautiful eyes and face, and great body all around.

I was nervous to talk to her, but I just had to tell her that I found her extremely pretty. We chatted for a bit but nothing really came of it.

There really is no reason for anybody to hold anything back. If you do, you might as well start planning your funeral.
 

Prodigy746

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Many times we will make a big deal about something when its really not that big of a deal. Our hight, weight, smile, hands, pimples, hair style, etc... Some people have to go through much worse!!!!
 

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awesome, thanks for the eye opener

volunteering at a soup kitchen always helps me keep things in perspective as well
 
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