"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So you think you got it bad huh?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No i never thought I had it bad

But yea, it would suck to be him. Good on him for making the most of himself
 

KarmaSutra

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I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dannyrt34

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KarmaSutra said:
I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
Unless they feel in the blank with the word confident. But even then, there's no good reason to lack confidence.

Come to think of it, last week I went out to a local bar which is a hotspot for the college croud. There was one girl there that had some sort of disability with her legs and uses them crutches that are attached to her wrists to get around. And this girl was also drop dead GORGEOUS. Only when she walked you could tell something is wrong, other than that there was nothing wrong with her legs or anything, no deformity whatsoever. She actually had a nice round toned ass and my god she was just amazing. Beautiful eyes and face, and great body all around.

I was nervous to talk to her, but I just had to tell her that I found her extremely pretty. We chatted for a bit but nothing really came of it.

There really is no reason for anybody to hold anything back. If you do, you might as well start planning your funeral.
 

Prodigy746

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Many times we will make a big deal about something when its really not that big of a deal. Our hight, weight, smile, hands, pimples, hair style, etc... Some people have to go through much worse!!!!
 

tsmith2334

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awesome, thanks for the eye opener

volunteering at a soup kitchen always helps me keep things in perspective as well
 
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