"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So you think you got it bad huh?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No i never thought I had it bad

But yea, it would suck to be him. Good on him for making the most of himself
 

KarmaSutra

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I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dannyrt34

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KarmaSutra said:
I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
Unless they feel in the blank with the word confident. But even then, there's no good reason to lack confidence.

Come to think of it, last week I went out to a local bar which is a hotspot for the college croud. There was one girl there that had some sort of disability with her legs and uses them crutches that are attached to her wrists to get around. And this girl was also drop dead GORGEOUS. Only when she walked you could tell something is wrong, other than that there was nothing wrong with her legs or anything, no deformity whatsoever. She actually had a nice round toned ass and my god she was just amazing. Beautiful eyes and face, and great body all around.

I was nervous to talk to her, but I just had to tell her that I found her extremely pretty. We chatted for a bit but nothing really came of it.

There really is no reason for anybody to hold anything back. If you do, you might as well start planning your funeral.
 

Prodigy746

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Many times we will make a big deal about something when its really not that big of a deal. Our hight, weight, smile, hands, pimples, hair style, etc... Some people have to go through much worse!!!!
 

tsmith2334

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awesome, thanks for the eye opener

volunteering at a soup kitchen always helps me keep things in perspective as well
 
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