"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long would you wait to shatter his fantasy of girls as Disney movie characters?

Would you wait until 5 to tell him the truth? 10? 15?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'd let him figure it out as he goes, gently guiding him if he goes too far off course.

There's no better teacher than experience. If hypothetical son was repeating mistakes or struggling in his search for answers, I'd share the wisdom I've gained from my life - but only so much, as my wisdom is tainted by own experiences and he could be on a very different path than I ever was.
 

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I'll give him the DJ Bible the moment he comes out of the womb.
 

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Kids are a clean slate and if they are not programmed by their environment then they will never get those ideas. You could always not buy Disney movies and opt for other kid entertainment. Its almost impossible though to escape these ideas though as it is pervasive in all media. I just went to Disney World with my little niece who is 5. The thing to do now is to dress all these little girls in princess gowns. It starts early. Yes, they are little kids, and it is all in fun but the message gets reinforced throughout their growth into adulthood by Daddy, media, and popular culture. If its a pretty girl who gets a lot of attention then now you might have a monster on your hands.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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