"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So you approach a girl....

soika

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now u in the attraction phase what u guys naturally do to creat attraction and i mean naturally without routin?
what is your best move for attraction?
(what is the best Product that really explain that phase that u recommend)?

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rhoto

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soika said:
(what is the best Product that really explain that phase that u recommend)
Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.

Creating attraction from a woman is very, very simple.

1) Show that your value is considerably higher than hers. (You're worthy)
2) Let her know that you giving her any of your attention is a fvcking miracle. (She's Not)
3) Mess with her head. (Don't communicate too often)
4) Bang her. ( Show her the business end)
5) Repeat steps 1-4 in any order, with an emphasis of #4. (Perpetuate the arrangement. The moment she becomes a bore/annoying NEXT!)

Those are the basics. Questions?
 

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so u say just make good or regular conversation with the thing u just mentioned?
 

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OP, I don't think you really understand what being a natural is. You have to try and escalate things, create tension. There is no "best move."
 

Rhoto

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soika said:
so u say just make good or regular conversation with the thing u just mentioned?

See man, you're looking for a solve all, there is none.

There is only being able to draw on experience and make a good judgment.

My method works pretty damn well for me, but its a HORRIBLE method for picking up certain types of chicks. You need to adjust to fit the situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I agree with Rhoto, not every method works with every girl. If see the girl on a regular basis in a public setting ie works with you, is in the same class, one day sit beside her and talk to her for a fair amount of time, the next day just say hello. Mix things up!
 

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Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.

Creating attraction from a woman is very, very simple.
If it was simple we wouldnt be here now would we?

1) Show that your value is considerably higher than hers. (You're worthy)
2) Let her know that you giving her any of your attention is a fvcking miracle. (She's Not)
So far so good, this creates attaction.
3) Mess with her head. (Don't communicate too often)
4) Bang her. ( Show her the business end)
No. You cant bang her on attraction alone unless she's easy (fools mate) or drunk. You must create comfort first, so step 3 would be rapport, Then step 4 would be get sexual with kino and such. Once this is done shes ready to be banged.
5) Repeat steps 1-4 in any order, with an emphasis of #4. (Perpetuate the arrangement. The moment she becomes a bore/annoying NEXT!)

Those are the basics. Questions?
Wow you make it seem so easy. Like saying its easy to drive, just press on the gas to go and press the brake to stop. Simple right?
 
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