"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So you approach a girl....

soika

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now u in the attraction phase what u guys naturally do to creat attraction and i mean naturally without routin?
what is your best move for attraction?
(what is the best Product that really explain that phase that u recommend)?

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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soika said:
(what is the best Product that really explain that phase that u recommend)
Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.

Creating attraction from a woman is very, very simple.

1) Show that your value is considerably higher than hers. (You're worthy)
2) Let her know that you giving her any of your attention is a fvcking miracle. (She's Not)
3) Mess with her head. (Don't communicate too often)
4) Bang her. ( Show her the business end)
5) Repeat steps 1-4 in any order, with an emphasis of #4. (Perpetuate the arrangement. The moment she becomes a bore/annoying NEXT!)

Those are the basics. Questions?
 

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so u say just make good or regular conversation with the thing u just mentioned?
 

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OP, I don't think you really understand what being a natural is. You have to try and escalate things, create tension. There is no "best move."
 

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soika said:
so u say just make good or regular conversation with the thing u just mentioned?

See man, you're looking for a solve all, there is none.

There is only being able to draw on experience and make a good judgment.

My method works pretty damn well for me, but its a HORRIBLE method for picking up certain types of chicks. You need to adjust to fit the situation.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree with Rhoto, not every method works with every girl. If see the girl on a regular basis in a public setting ie works with you, is in the same class, one day sit beside her and talk to her for a fair amount of time, the next day just say hello. Mix things up!
 

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Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.

Creating attraction from a woman is very, very simple.
If it was simple we wouldnt be here now would we?

1) Show that your value is considerably higher than hers. (You're worthy)
2) Let her know that you giving her any of your attention is a fvcking miracle. (She's Not)
So far so good, this creates attaction.
3) Mess with her head. (Don't communicate too often)
4) Bang her. ( Show her the business end)
No. You cant bang her on attraction alone unless she's easy (fools mate) or drunk. You must create comfort first, so step 3 would be rapport, Then step 4 would be get sexual with kino and such. Once this is done shes ready to be banged.
5) Repeat steps 1-4 in any order, with an emphasis of #4. (Perpetuate the arrangement. The moment she becomes a bore/annoying NEXT!)

Those are the basics. Questions?
Wow you make it seem so easy. Like saying its easy to drive, just press on the gas to go and press the brake to stop. Simple right?
 
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