She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.soika said:(what is the best Product that really explain that phase that u recommend)
soika said:so u say just make good or regular conversation with the thing u just mentioned?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If it was simple we wouldnt be here now would we?Real life experience. This community of "pick up artists" are salesmen pitching their product to you. Some work some don't. You're better off reading than wasting your money.
Creating attraction from a woman is very, very simple.
So far so good, this creates attaction.1) Show that your value is considerably higher than hers. (You're worthy)
2) Let her know that you giving her any of your attention is a fvcking miracle. (She's Not)
No. You cant bang her on attraction alone unless she's easy (fools mate) or drunk. You must create comfort first, so step 3 would be rapport, Then step 4 would be get sexual with kino and such. Once this is done shes ready to be banged.3) Mess with her head. (Don't communicate too often)
4) Bang her. ( Show her the business end)
Wow you make it seem so easy. Like saying its easy to drive, just press on the gas to go and press the brake to stop. Simple right?5) Repeat steps 1-4 in any order, with an emphasis of #4. (Perpetuate the arrangement. The moment she becomes a bore/annoying NEXT!)
Those are the basics. Questions?