Shootin4Dreams
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Besides waiting to text her back or calling or flaking on dates. What are examples like conversation wise to have her chase you?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So when you guys say to have a women chase you. Examples please?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do whatever you want 24/7 regardless of how women feel about it or how much they approve of it.
Spin plates and allow women to fight for your attention instead of being a weak, thirsty, desperate faggot who focuses all his attention on ONE woman.
Spin plates and allow women to fight for your attention instead of being a weak, thirsty, desperate faggot who focuses all his attention on ONE woman.
marmel75
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There are no examples. It's what happens when a woman wants you and knows you have options.
First and foremost, keep improving yourself. This is your top priority.
Then, keep talking to several girls/women. Set a limit on how much you want to chase; for instance, two strikes, and stand by it. If a woman does not respond within your set limit, next her and approach another woman.
(1) Conversation-wise, show her that you are a man of substance. Show her that you have general awareness of the world and an all-round personality. Talk about different industries, talk about different careers and different fields of work, talk about different majors at college and different areas of education, talk about recent news and what's happening in the country and around the world, da da da. No matter how feminist a girl/woman is and how tough she acts/pretends to act towards men, submissiveness is in her nature and she will always look for a protector, bread-winner, and strong and all-round person she can bank on in times of difficulty/need.
(2) Avoid talking about movies, music, entertainment, fairy-tale love stories, da da da. That's girly talk; leave such talk for girls/women. A little bit is ok, but it should not be a predominant part of conversation.
If you fall into (1) and other guys she is talking to fall into (2), she may not chase you, because you have already dropped her, but she will spread the word out and make her friends/other girls chase you. It's because you are different. It's common sense.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You got the wrong mindset. As soon as you do something or not do something because of a woman, you are already in a weaker position.
Be a great man for yourself and society. Girls will start begging you to have sex with them because they want to be a part of something society deems valuable.
Making yourself a "catch" to a woman is more of a lifelong strategy than it is a tactic.
I feel like the moment you consciously decide to pursue a woman, you have become the chaser and not the chasee, no matter how you try to play the push/pull game. Sometimes this works, but most of the time it doesn't.
Your best bet is to work on yourself and then put yourself in the limelight of women.
Once you've come to the point where your "wait hours or days before you text back" are natural and not planned [because you have too much business to take care of], then you have truly become mysterious.
As your social and sexual value increases, your consciousness of your game should become more and more minimal.
I feel like the moment you consciously decide to pursue a woman, you have become the chaser and not the chasee, no matter how you try to play the push/pull game. Sometimes this works, but most of the time it doesn't.
Your best bet is to work on yourself and then put yourself in the limelight of women.
Once you've come to the point where your "wait hours or days before you text back" are natural and not planned [because you have too much business to take care of], then you have truly become mysterious.
As your social and sexual value increases, your consciousness of your game should become more and more minimal.
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EyeBRollin
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Focus on making your life fulfilling without women. Go to the gym. Focus on your work and business. It takes time to build your roster of plates, but once you get a few you give no **** about call back time, etc. They will fight for your attention.
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And, always stay a mystery. Live your life well and work on you. You have a life and she has to understand that. Never lose yourself to any woman. Selectively tell her what you want her to know about you, and let her ask the questions. Don't be an open book and a tell all, women find that boring. Always keep her guessing, wondering and if'ng. That keeps her interest level VERY high and she'll come to you with a mattress on her back. 
daddymonsterpoodle
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OK...thee is a woman in my community attractive, single. I used to go out of my way to try to talk to her back before I took the red pill. She was friendly but nothing more.
Now when I see her I make strong eye contact, a small smile and leave it at that. I don't approach because I don't need to. Last party we were at she approached me, telling me that her lip balm made her lips supersoft and kissable. I gave her some discreet kino and told her another time (my son was with me and my crazy ex-wife was about 30m away). Now she is pursuing me. By NOT chasing her my value has skyrocketed. It shows I have self-confidence and choices (like honey to a bee) and that if she wants me she needs to earn my attention. That makes me the one with power which means less bullshot if we do hook up.
Because I haven't now pedestalised her I am outcome independent.
Once you achieve that you will stop being the desperate guy waiting for a text, or the one who is heartbroken because the number he was given was fake.
Another time I told a girl I liked to come around in the morning. But I would still be in bed. She came.
It is still a man"s job to show initial interest. After that make them do some work.
Now when I see her I make strong eye contact, a small smile and leave it at that. I don't approach because I don't need to. Last party we were at she approached me, telling me that her lip balm made her lips supersoft and kissable. I gave her some discreet kino and told her another time (my son was with me and my crazy ex-wife was about 30m away). Now she is pursuing me. By NOT chasing her my value has skyrocketed. It shows I have self-confidence and choices (like honey to a bee) and that if she wants me she needs to earn my attention. That makes me the one with power which means less bullshot if we do hook up.
Because I haven't now pedestalised her I am outcome independent.
Once you achieve that you will stop being the desperate guy waiting for a text, or the one who is heartbroken because the number he was given was fake.
Another time I told a girl I liked to come around in the morning. But I would still be in bed. She came.
It is still a man"s job to show initial interest. After that make them do some work.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.