"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So,what's up?

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Haven't posted on here in a while. Not much new to say. Other than I am looking into therapy. I have lots of questions as usual,but won't get into it right now. Other than I feel like my thoughts contradict one another,esp when it comes to figuring out stuff discussed on here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SuavePlaya

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Hows therapy working for you? When a person grows their new beliefs contradict with their old ones.
 
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I haven't started yet. I am trying to set something up. Is that all it is,changing beliefs? This concerns me,cause I may have a problem doing that.
 

ready123

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your problem is you won't take action, it's simple as that

if someone canceled your internet and removed all the other crap in your life that gives you you the means to waste time feeling sorry for your self, your life would magically improve because you'd actually have to do something with your life instead of mindfvck yourself

but seems like you don't want it bad enough. so have fun sitting in your bubble
 
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