"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So,what's up?

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Haven't posted on here in a while. Not much new to say. Other than I am looking into therapy. I have lots of questions as usual,but won't get into it right now. Other than I feel like my thoughts contradict one another,esp when it comes to figuring out stuff discussed on here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SuavePlaya

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Hows therapy working for you? When a person grows their new beliefs contradict with their old ones.
 
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I haven't started yet. I am trying to set something up. Is that all it is,changing beliefs? This concerns me,cause I may have a problem doing that.
 

ready123

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your problem is you won't take action, it's simple as that

if someone canceled your internet and removed all the other crap in your life that gives you you the means to waste time feeling sorry for your self, your life would magically improve because you'd actually have to do something with your life instead of mindfvck yourself

but seems like you don't want it bad enough. so have fun sitting in your bubble
 
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