"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So,what's up?

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Haven't posted on here in a while. Not much new to say. Other than I am looking into therapy. I have lots of questions as usual,but won't get into it right now. Other than I feel like my thoughts contradict one another,esp when it comes to figuring out stuff discussed on here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hows therapy working for you? When a person grows their new beliefs contradict with their old ones.
 
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CapedCrusader08

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I haven't started yet. I am trying to set something up. Is that all it is,changing beliefs? This concerns me,cause I may have a problem doing that.
 
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your problem is you won't take action, it's simple as that

if someone canceled your internet and removed all the other crap in your life that gives you you the means to waste time feeling sorry for your self, your life would magically improve because you'd actually have to do something with your life instead of mindfvck yourself

but seems like you don't want it bad enough. so have fun sitting in your bubble
 
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